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writes:There are 2 girls i really like one lives local and one lives 200 miles away. The one who lives 200 miles away i get on with so well and were both really good friends but I'm also really good friends with the girl who lives local now i don't want to seem like I'm playing them because I'm not were just really good friend I'm just worried if i do decide to get into a relationship with one of them that I'm going to lose the other as a friend. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, 00130945  +, writes (11 April 2009):
Wow this sounds just like the situation I am in, but I am one of the girls! Well I would make sure that you get to know as much about both these girls as you can, and choose the one you can see yourself having a future with. Which one are you the most compatible with? Which one could you end up marrying? Don't just choose the one who live by you because it is easier! Make sure you really think this through because you could end up losing one of them! Even if you want to stay friends with both of them it probably won't work out. The girl who you end up being in a relationship with isn't going to be happy with you talking to the other girl. Have you talked to both of these girls to see how they feel about you? My advice is to not make a decision until you are sure of what you want! Then go with your heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): well, im afraid it would sound shallow if i said go with the local one. Because thats just suitable. But i wont. I'll advise you to go with the person you love. and you will loose one its a concequence but you might not loose them forever. xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): Go for the local one.
Long distance relationships have their problems.
You shouldnt worry about losing the other as a friend, she may not even like you 'in that way' so there isn't any point in assuming that she will stop being your friend if you date the local lass.
But the choice is yours! Surely there is one whom you like more than the other?
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reader, mmbaby +, writes (11 April 2009):
if you do get an a relationship with one the other might get jelous but if she truly is your friend then she wont mind but at first she might care a little,if she has some "feelings" for you.i don't thing your playing them....ive had the song issue before btw its not "playing" then when your not going out with someone and your flirtin with another.
i hope i can help?!?!
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