A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I'm not sure what to do. Last summer i ended up hooking up with my best guy friend, we both weren't really sure what we were doing so we ended up sleeping with other people. Then when we realised we were wanting to be serious i told him about what i had done and even though he had done similar things he ended it. I tried to save our friendship but he completely blanked me. We've just started speaking again and hopefully we're going to hang out soon but the thing is i think i miss him as more than a friend. I have no idea if he's with anyone else but i always thought we ended to soon and when it was going good we had something so special. I'm not sure whether to just hang out with him and see how it goes or just straight up tell him how I'm feeling? Also one of my closest friends use to like him and we fell out last time over me and him hooking up but i really think i had something with him so i don't know if i am best off leaving it cause he did really hurt me. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (28 March 2013):
 He dumps you because YOU hooked up with someone else, EVEN-THOUGH he did the same? So he think having double standard is OK, you can't hook up with others because you are a girl? To me that is a NO-NO.
But I guess that is in the past.
If you two recently have started to hang out together I would just take it really slow.
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