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Archived questions from: 29 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I cheated. How do I prove I'm not that person anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I cheated on my ex bf for about a month in April. We lived together 5 out of the 7 months we were together. Things got really difficult because he was having financial and family problems while i felt we were drifiting away. I realized our fla...

If I impress her will she want more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - Hi, please help im getting sad :) I have worked with a girl for a year now. up until 2 and a half months ago i had a girlfriend. i always liked the girl i worked with but would never dream of cheating. the girl from work dated a guy from work too...

My ex asked my best friend out! Was he trying to make me jelious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - please help on this one ok i had a bf then we ended it before school ended about a week after that he asked my best friend out and but it only lasted a week but he knew that i had feelings 4 him was he trying to make me jelious?...

Why did I act as such a fool? Have I lost him for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hello there, I'd like some advice on how to stop feeling like a complete fool and move on after breaking up with my bf of 9 yrs. I'm sorry if this is a bit long, bit here goes... I met him 9 years ago at Uni, fell in love hard and fast, and 2 ...

Why did she lie to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - I was dating a girl for a while and when we got together she told me she was single, now I come to find out that she would go back and forth between me and her ex boyfriend. We would be pissed about it but she tells me she wants to be with me and we ...

Am I right to have pressed charges? And why would he do these things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hi I am taking my ex to court, for fraud theft and dwoc, I am due next week to appear. I was seeing this guy for 6 months, we had a lovely relationship, (so I thought) basically he stole money from my bank account by stealing my card. And taking...

Finished with girlfriend but now full of regret!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - I recently finished with my girlfriend after a second attempt at the relationship, i was having silly niggling doubts and thought it was moving way to fast so i called it a day, however my friends and family all said to me i was way to hasty and ...

Messy breakup is leaving me out of pocket!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - I just got dumped badly from my girl after 11 years. I am 29. We purchased an appartment 2 years ago and the home loan is in both our names. Her parents gave us $60000 towards the place when we bought it. She now wants to sell and her lawyers sent ...

Why do angel boyfriends turn out to be monster exes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Question to all males: My boyfriend always tells me that he has never met any female who has the kindest, most white heart he has known as me. (I am the only woman he seriously dated) I was always understanding to him, never calls him names, even ...

The thought of my ex with another guy is bringing me to tears!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - this is gonna sound dead weird but ive split from my ex girlfriend 4 weeks ago and normally i get over relationships in no time but with this one we agreed to be good friends and went out today together with a few others - durin this time she harped ...

My BF broke up with me, should I stay and fight or come back later.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me after a year of dating. We had a great relationship until the end when things got tense. I started pressuring him to go to the next level and the tension just snow balled. He says he's convinced in his heart and so...

What is the easiest way to dump someone you've been with for over two years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - What is the easiest way to dump someone you've been with for over two years? I've tried before but I hate making people feel bad. You have no idea what it does to me. But I have to do it, I'm miserable. I do love him, but it's just not the same ...

She broke my heart before, and now she seems to be acting the same way again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - hey, basically, i really like this girl, i have liked her for about a year, and we acted like a relationship. (we went out together kissed had sex blah blah blah) but it wasn't official, and when i asked her about being together she kept saying i...

How slow is too slow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - My ex is giving me every indication that he wants to get back together even talking about why we split up...even to the point of saying people don't agree on everything. However he seems to be taking things very slowly. He is very emotional and ...

Can you make a mistake when it comes to thinking whether they are "the one?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Have you ever been in a relationship, thought there was no way this person is the one, broke up and later realized they were the one and wanted to go back?...

Should I forget him or give him a second chance if he comes back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I went out with this boy last year for about a week but then I ended it because I didn't want my heart broken. I still had feelings for him...we didn't talk for a couple of months.. then he started going out with this girl and I kind of got ...

Do I just let him go and forget him, or do I keep trying to make this work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hi I don't know if I should break up with my boyfriend or try and make it work? I am 22 and have been with my boyfriend nearly 4 years (he is 25.) We are mostly happy but have broken up a few times, and have had periods of intense arguing and ...

How do I make him stop playing with my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - my bf and i broke up a few months ago becouse he wasnt giving his all and i was..plus i found text messages to other chicks in his phone....he denyed having sex with them but couldnt deny the fact he was doin wrong...so i broke up with him but ...

I don't know who to breakup with because I love them both!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - i love 2 boys and they love me too. ive been going out with one of them for three months me and him dont get along, he says he loves me but i dont think so and the other one its been 5 weeks. the first one i went out with his brother cousin and his ...

My BF suddenly told me he was done. I still love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Today my boyfriend came over. We were both really happy to see each other. I caught him staring and just dazing off. I didn't mind until he did it while i was talking. I knew something was wrong but he didn't want to tell me. He kept saying he was ...

Dating again after ending a relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years two days ago. He had been extremely controlling and our relationship was very rocky. I was at the point where I had completely changed for him and could not even be myself around him because he ...

I still love her..but does she love me?

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29 July 2009 (M) - hi i am in a separation with my wife we have 2 kids ,one she had with another guy before me but i have been there since her birth. i love them and i still love her. we have broke up before and in a matter a days she has found someone to date. one of ...

Seeing the ex again, just brought back all of my feelings for him...any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - We parted on my part bad terms(I felted he was dishonest to me and I think he couldn`t handle his feelings for me)I seen him for the first time in 5 months should I just leave will enough alone? I really liked him. I don`t think he will every get in ...

Is this avoiding commitment a phase or something more permanent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - My love life seems to be drifting right now. I'm not sure what I want and when anyone tries to get too close, I back off. I'm wondering if this is just a phase... I seem to just want some positive attention from at least a few guys at a time right ...

Is he just curious or does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - Hi, im gay and i need help, my boyfriend and I broke up some time ago, almost one month, we ended up in bad terms, i have a lot of feelings for him, im still in love even though he really hurt my feelings, i just cant stop thinking about him, once I ...

Maybe we focused too heavily on the relationship and not our friendship? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - There's a friend of mine. We are so close it's unreal, and she told me she liked me. I fell in love with her, and we went out for a month. But then- Recently, she said she just was unhappy, she preferred it when we were friends, and she broke up...

She ignores me all the time. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - hello, i have a problem, me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 3 months now, and well... I'm just not happy, she is a year younger than me and a virgin, although i do not want a sexual relationship with her i just know she may be ...

My First Time

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - So your first times suppose to be special, right?. You dream about finding that one lad who will sweep you off your feet and make all your dreams come true? WRONG. I was 15, gulliable and young.So innocent.The only time i'd ever mentioned sex wa...