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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Today my boyfriend came over. We were both really happy to see each other. I caught him staring and just dazing off. I didn't mind until he did it while i was talking. I knew something was wrong but he didn't want to tell me. He kept saying he was ok and everything was fine. While we were kissing he suddenly stopped and just started to stare at the wall. I layed on his chest and kissed his neck but he got up telling me he had to go. I tried to be understanding and ask if something went wrong and if he wanted me to walk with him like i normally do but he said no. He left without saying i love u or kissing me. I texted him to tell him i had his t shirt and he left his key to the house. He told me he has had enough and is done. Im confused. I cried into his t shirt. I still love him. What do i tell him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): Don't do anything for a while. Leave him alone. Something is definitely going on and it seems like he wants to deal with it on his own. Meanwhile, although it's going to be very very painful, go do some exercise (get your blood pumping), go out with a close friend or two, maybe do some things around the house (bake or cook a new dish for yourself), and make sure--most important of all--that you take care of business, work, school, bills, whatever it is that you have to do and eat well and take care of your body. The guys are never guaranteed, but you have to look out for yourself. It seems like you don't really know what's going on with him and he's not very open with you. Sometimes when we really want someone we don't want to see what's really going on because we just want to have that person, and sometimes the guy just feels like he's suffocating. Live your own life and if there is enough feeling in his heart for you and if his problems get resolved enough he'll contact you himself. Whatever you do don't destroy yourself and don't try to contact him, whenever you want to call him just call a friend of yours instead. Or give your phone to someone else for a few days so that you won't be obsessing over it.
Good Luck
M.
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