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Archived questions from: 10 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Why did she have to make a comment like that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - i know this is trivial compared to people with real problems but its upsetting none the less. my boyfriend was at work the other day and said that a girl there mentioned to him that my ex had got married (he used to work there too) she then...

I see this guy all the time, but he is not interested, how can I get over him completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I NEED your help. The boy I have fancied for 2 years, told me a couple of days ago, that me and him would never work. Not even in secret. And it just made me feel like i am a no one. I need your help because, he is in the year above me, but we talk ...

He has no time for me! Is it too much to ask?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago. He was pretty desperate to stay friends with me and its what I wanted too. The breakup was his fault so I really felt like if he wanted to stay friends he had to put the effort in and he agreed. ...

Broke up to meet others but now I'm not happy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years b/c i thought i wanted to be with somebody else but I don't know what to do. The new guys is exciting and different but wit my ex we have so many great memories and he treated me so well, it just got kinda ...

Confused! I want to end it before he hurts me more than the first time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - i was with him before, he broke up with me. now, after 7 months we're back together. even though that's what i wanted, i have not been happy. i feel as if i'm the one trying to keep the relationship alive. i've displayed some angry attitudes toward ...

Can a person become brilliant despite having little or no relationship with their parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - Hey! I'd love to hear from anyone that's experienced something similar to me! The thing is, all my life, I've never been that close to my parents, particularly my Dad, and I think that's the main reason I have low self esteem. I've never really had ...

Broke up, didn't want to be contacted but now he's sending messages again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I am still broken up with my boyfriend since 3 months ago. It was a very bad break-up, he was very angry with me. I texted him later to say sorry but he said that I should leave him alone. He said that if we keep texting each other, then it will be ...

All my friends ditched me after my breakup. I'm lonely :-( how do I get out of this rut?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Hi im wondering what to do with myself. My bf and I ended an 9 year relationship and I moved towns. Even though he cheated on me none of our mutual friends speak to me any more and im very lonely because I no longer have any friends. I try and...

My Ex wants to still have Sex when his new Girlfriend is pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I was with my ex for 5 years he cheated on me 3 times but I love him and still ended up back with him. We got married last year and I got pregnant. He left me for other women when I was 2 months prego. He told me thay it was a mistake to leave me ...

I love him, do we keep the baby even tho we're 900 miles apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago because he couldnt decided if he wanted to be with me or be single. I let him make the choice after being with him for 2 years making sure he knew I tried and it was his decision. We promised to remain ...

Why is he so mean to me when we've broken up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - Hi, me and my boyfriend broke up a few weeks ago, I'm feeling really down and depressed, because we ended up in ugly terms, he was so mean and rude to me, telling me things like these: - I don't wanna talk to you, whats the part you dont get? -...

Is there any hope of us getting back together based on what he had told me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - So this is long, but I need some advice. Me and my boyfriend were together for about seven months. I had never felt so strong about another person and told me how much i meant to him and how much he loved me evert day. Well, something happened ...

Shouldn't he be the one to make the effort to win my affection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy for three years, we lived together for one of them. He's going to graduate school in Maryland while I'm staying here in Oregon. He says that he needs time for himself to grow and mature, and thinks that we're way too young to ...

I'm tired of the way my boyfriend tries to detatch from me every summer and puts in no effort to see me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Me again. Hey, so I talked to my friend on the phone the other night. She's my best friend and isn't so crazy about my bf anymore. She gave me some really good advice. He is on a camping trip and is still trying to remain distant from me. Everyon...

I want to study abroad, what about my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - For the past year I have been planning to study abroad. However, I met this guy and we became a couple (gay couple), even though neither one of us is "out of the closet", so to speak. We love each other very much, and he made great changes in his ...

Married, but I'm in love with the other man and want to pursue that relationship.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I am a 38 year old woman married for 14 to a 52 year old man. My husband has been a truck driver for the last 12 years. When we originally married he was home everyday, then everyday turned into week and now months for the last 11 years. Nine...