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writes:Question to all males:My boyfriend always tells me that he has never met any female who has the kindest, most white heart he has known as me. (I am the only woman he seriously dated) I was always understanding to him, never calls him names, even during fights I always accepted his excuses but will never ever treat him with disrespect.He always tells me this is the reason why he loves me, because I am a very special person and my qualities are rare.The same boyfriend who is now my ex is treating me rudely. Although he never calls me names but replies to my texts coldly with just a "no", "yes", "I don't know". And refuses to pay the money he owes me and delays the the time of payment.I have read about people like this on this site and I keep on wondering, what makes guys turn from someone so respectful become very disrespectful to you..in just a few days difference? During the relationship he was an angel, now he is an ex..he is a monster.What is my fault? I just want my money back and he can afford it very much but is just to stubborn to pay..Thanks for any advise..
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): When people are selfish narcissists that only see themselves as important then they will be happy when you give them what they want, and unhappy when you take it away.
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reader, DLover  +, writes (29 July 2009):
I think he was honest when he said all the good things about you, but now that it's over, he is suffering. People that suffer act very differently, especially because he probably blames you, the first real love of his life, for all his pain.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (29 July 2009):
 Why does an angel owe you money?
Perhaps he was merely a wolf in sheeps clothing?
Lets be blunt, in the relationship you gave him money and sex.
Out of the relationship, you want money from him and no sex.
So. Is it even remotely possible that he was nice to you because he wanted something from you. Now he no longer wants it, he can be his true self.
You got a simple choice, either come up with some kind of exotic reason why a person undergoes a complete personality change in a couple of days OR accept that you have been had.
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