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Archived questions from: 17 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Why did she assume that my current man stole me from my ex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5404 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - well here goes. my ex fiance got married 6 months ago. my current boyfriend was working with a girl the other day who was telling him about my ex fiance getting married. my current boyfriend knew of him but didnt know his surname. he knew of him ...

I feel so lonely, I want to have more confidence and friends, please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - hi i need help. i feel so lonely all the time ive just come out of a very bad relationship and my self esteem is zilch-to be honest ive never had much im always so hard on myself , negative critical. i have only 1 good friend-that sounds terrib...

Is it just human nature to cheat?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Does anyone have a straight-forward, happy, long-lasting relationship these days? My Mum and Dad divorced when I was a teenager, and my bf has recently cheated on me (nothing physical, but exchanging flirty texts and phone calls with a girl from ...

Cheated on me with her cousin and dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - Im not kidding you, I was with a girl for 8 months and I truly loved her but, she ended up cheating on me with her cousin, I fell into sadness and depression and felt as if I would never find anyone. One of the reasons she dumped me was because I am ...

Should I split from him, hes never physically cheated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Hello readers, I hope you can give me your perspectives on my situation as it's making me sad. I've been with my bf 10 years. We lived together pretty happily for 7 years, until last year, when he broke up with me, saying he didn't know what he ...

I feel trapped in this relationship - it's becoming abusive but I'm stuck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. We have just recently moved out of town and are living together for the first time. About a year and a half ago i was raped by someone who was a coworker and someone who i thought was a friend. ...

Aahh!! Boys are confusing as hell!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - love. the only word to describe the way i feel about my ex-boyfriend. he dumped me for another girl 2 months ago but i cant get over him. since we broke up weve talked EVERYDAY, and madeout twice. well spend the day together and lay on the same ...

Getting over the past... how can I help the man I love deal with mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are on the verge of breaking up. Four years ago was the darkest time in my life. I met my current boyfriend and his best friend and ended up sleeping with both of them when my current boyfriend was helping me out of a horribl...

Is she wearing the ring for me, or for the guy she is talking to? I'm so confused by her... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - holy hell some one help asap. i had this girl i was dating for 4 1/2 years. i loved her more then anything in the world. and two months ago she killed me on the inside when she broke up with me to c other people. i love this girl still. well a few ...

I'm desperate to get her back but I don't know how to play it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - I have recently split up with girl of 3 months a couple of weeks ago - it ended on a really stupid note, basically a couple of arguments that got out of hand. I'm having trouble deciding whether she still likes me or not though - the only contact i ...

He realised its no good to continue a relationship that would end eventually

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I have written for advises on this site but I never get enough. I always come back for more as I am still as depressed as ever. Somehow, the advises seemed not enough. I will try to make it as short and as accurate as ever. I have been wit...

I'm not really sure why we broke up...did he get cold feet or felt that he wasnt a good boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Here's my story/summary: I apologize for the lengthy summary - it was hard to summarize.I mainly need opinions. My bf of 2 mos broke up w/ me. The reason for break up was numerous – one of the reasons: “I cant give u what u want (kids/marriag...

Cheated....how should I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - my wife cheated on me just before we separated. she then slept with another 3 guys while we were apart, 1 of them she works with. we are now back together and she finally told me about it after someone let part of the story slip. now she is always ...

How do I get all the trouble with my ex to stop and start getting over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5404 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - So me and my now ex-gf have been going through a pretty ugly split. We argue and insult each other and try to sabotage each others self-esteem. She was bad to me during the relationship and now even when Im trying to get out of it she still torments ...

We broke up and now I'm depressed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up about a week and a half ago. He had told me every day how much he loved me and how much I meant to him. However, the night before we broke up, he was acting really distant. After asking him to be nicer to me, he ...

I've just found out she had a threesome and this is eating away at me!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - I really need some help here. Me and my girlfriend broke up a couple months ago. I had sex with one girl, shortly after the relationship ended and again two weeks later. She found out about both as i admided to it. She then procieded to have sex ...

Is changing your appearance a good way to get over someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i spilt up a few days ago, we havent really dicussed it, i just said it was over and that was that, i dont really want to go into details about it, but i had good reasons for it though. i don't want to ever go back, but i have long ...

Why is she hurting me like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - so it been 4 weeks since me and my ex have split up i got a flat just round the road from her we have 2 kids and i want to be near them she asked me to leave she said i was making her unhappy and i was doing nothing around the house i had just lost ...

I pushed my wife away because of insecurities, now she's gone to study and all I want is her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - After 9 months of marriage, i broke up with my 19 year old wife and now she's left town for further studies which i disagree with her because i felt insecure that she might be use by some male friends in her college just for enjoyment. I'm no more ...