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Archived questions from: 1 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

She is having the best of both worlds and I am letting it happen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - Well here is the problem. I have been in a serious relationship for 10 years now. Just started going to church. My girlfriend then starts to talking to a preacher who is 28 years old. He has no job and still lives at home with his parents and has ...

She loves me but is not sexually attracted to me - what does she mean by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - I dated this girl for 2 years in college but towards the end of our relationship we started fighting a lot and kinda fell out of love. We broke up in feb 2009 and continued to remain friends. In May we started hanging out a lot and started acting ...

Can we ever be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I've recently split up with a guy who did me wrong - in a big way. Despite this I genuinely believe he loved me. We've talked and talked and I finally understand why he did what he did although I can't forgive him just yet. However I real...

What to do with ex and sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago. We had been together for almost 4 years. Right away he was with this woman he met on a dating site! All of our neighbors wanted to know what was going on! She started sleeping over just a few days ...

How can I get my ex's friends to stop bringing his name up every time I meet them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I broke up with my ex about a year ago. He ended it and asked for no contact which was good as it helped me move on. Trouble is whenever I run into one of his friends, they always bring him up, as if they have been coached. I am getting tired of it ...

Any tips to help me get with this other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - God. Where do i start, Okay, i have a boyf, well i did, we're on a break for summer and we're being single because of arguing and we're thinking of getting back together after summer as it's only a break. But there's this other guy, who is the ...

Do I let him go or pursue him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Hey!! Ok. I kind of chased my boyfriend away unintentionarily! I was snooping on his facebook, so i created a false account and i could see his flirting with other girls. I got involved with a guy, but it didnt lead to anything, it was somethi...

Where do I stand with this man? I cant bring myself to tell him I still love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of six years had broken up with me in April. I didn't see it coming. I was in total shock! Like any other relationship, we had problems. We've been in a long-distance relationship for so many years and seemed to work. At the begin...

After 5 weeks together he needs space. Should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I started dating a guy 5 weeks ago.he was going out with a girl on and off for nearly ten years, they broke up nearly 8 months ago. he lives across the road from me also. we spend the first few weeks together stayin up for hours chatting. got on so ...

Things weren't perfect, but this cat issue is pushing me over the edge...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been living together for 5 months, without getting too deep, she has some medical issues, including some stress and anxiety issues. Shame on me for not really getting to understand the extent of these issues, but I'm ...

I wonder if he's become distant but I'm trying to change!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Hi. I really hope someone can help me..I appreciate any responses I get. Ok, so me and my boyfriend were togethr for like six months and it was amazing..like I couldn't have been happier and he felt the same. People we didn't know would comment on ...

How do I reconcile that I will cause him pain to make my life more peaceful?

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1 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid: I have been in a relationship for 2 1/2 yrs. We have a 13 month old son. My bf has put me through hell off and on since I became pregnant. He's subjected me to verbal and emotional abuse at first because he was scared of having a child. ...

Left with the tattoo, but not him!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I dated for like about three years, about five months ago, we got matching tattoos. I got his initals and he got mine. We both got it on the back of our neck. Now we are broken up and I am trying to get over it but everytime I ...

I don't know what so say to him...someone please help me..please..this is my last hope..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Okay so im so lost to where all i can do is cry and i never wanna leave my house... so i had just turned fifteen and i used to bowl. Well there was this guy there the night leage had come back around and the minute i saw him i fell head ove...

We're set in our respective churches -- should we try to work it out or break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - my bf and I have been together 9 months. He is catholic and I am baptist. We are concerned about what this will mean if we get married and start a family together. We are definitely in love, but we are very set in our own churches and ...

My girl always tells her friends our relationship problems before she tells me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - My current girlfriend always tells her friends our relationship problems before telling me and it really bugs me. its as if she expects her friends to tell me for her. For example im going to go see a movie with my friend this weekend and she a ...

The break up is fresh, how can I deal with the pain and when can I talk to her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - I loved her, we had so much in common.. I thought relationships that work are based on a commonality and similarities.. I guess not.. To be honest she was first 'real' love, someone i thought i could be with always. I would love to have ...

Did I just throw 5 years away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Ok, please help me find some kind of relief from this. I am beyond stressed right now. About a week ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of five years. I felt it was the best thing for me to do because I had issues with him not being able to co...

Break up, make up, break up again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - me and my boyfriend, we've had a lot of problems during the last 2 weeks , everything started when we went to a club 2 weekends ago, I got a little drunk, but i felt he was pushing me away to dance with another guys, at some point he told me to my ...

Should I break up with my boyfriend? It's not fair on him, these feelings I have for my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I'm so confused...my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 5 months, but have only been in an 'official relationship' for 2 weeks. I love him so much, he's one of my best friends and I know how many times people say this, but, I honestly ...