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Archived questions from: 16 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I went away on busines for 2 month and came back to find out my Girlfrend was engaged to another man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I am really going through a disturbing situation now days. Six months back I went out of country for 2 months business training. When I came back found my girlfriend behavior a little mischievous it was like she is hiding something from me. ...

Will he take me back? Would you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. The thing is that i sent an email to my ex saying that im sorry for what happened in the past and i hope he doesnt see me as a bad person ever (our relationship lasted almost 4 years and i broke hi...

How can I break this cycle of breaking up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Well, i was with my ex for a year and a half and we broke up a year ago.. but since him everytime im in a relationship i break up with them after a month or two and i dont know why! i love bein in a relationship and they'v always treated me good.. i ...

How do I stop thinking of all the sweet things he did?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - good day, i've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. and i love him alot, but we just cant be togather, he is 45 and i 25 and he has a 8 years old child, i do really love him but sometimes actually most of the time we fight coz he has to spend...

How do I make the break final instead of running away from our problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm looking for help regarding my marriage and would be grateful for advice from people who may have gone through a similar situation. My husband and I have been together 12 years, but only married for 3.5 years. Less than a week before we ...

Was I right to end things with my boyfriend? And what should I do about my 'new' boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I was going out with this guy ('dale') for over a year, but like every relationship we had out ups and downs, but the best thing was is that, not only was he my boyfriend he was my bestfriend too, we got along perfectly, i felt so comfortable around ...

Should I have a relationship with the boy I have been raising even though he is another man's son?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - I have been married for ten years. We have two sons. My wife recently told me she was having an affair with a coworker for five of those years. According to her, that man is the father of our youngest. Supposedly she broke it off six months ago ...

I feel guilty about my past and I'm afraid I wont find anyone in the future who will accept me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I am a 16 year gal...I'm really finding it difficult to forget my past..here goes the story { In brief} I was in this relationship for about 13 months..After a long emotional drama..Fights..misunderstandings..Problems of insecurity.. We've called i...

Should I get in touch with my ex even though I said I never wanted to hear from him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Should i write to my ex fling even after I told him I dont want to hear from him again? I used to date a guy for a couple months 5 months ago, we were perfect together and i was very happy but we were never official so i cut off all contact with...

I want to do something creative to suprise my ex so he will accept me as a friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - i have broke up about 3 months ago, because my ex was cheating on me, i had known that he was doing that and i forgave him and we decided to be good friends. just 2days before the break up, till i had a call a girl that he was cheating with and ...

Taking it slow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5404 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - My GF of 3.5 years recently broke up with me. She was hurt that she didn't feel I loved her anymore and that I no longer made her feel special. I felt the same way, I feared she no longer loved me which caused me to pull back and stop making her ...

Why is he letting our friends control his decisions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5403 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - About the 22nd of June, my boyfriend left with his family to go to Flordia to visit some other family. I was a little worried because I know that two of his exs live there and the one I despise lives closest to where he was staying. When he got ...

Should I keep my promise to see my ex again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - When we broke up, I promised my ex that we would meet up a year later for coffee or something. It was a long way away (I figured time would be the best thing) and she really make me promise. Well a year is coming up and I was planning on keep...

Confused about whether to find a new girl.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - At the end of last year I ended an 18 month relationship because it wasn't working out, and I was having family problems at the same time which didn't help. The relationship had been great for the majority of the 18 months but had been degenerating ...

Am I a slut for continuing to have sex with my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

16 July 2009 (?) - My ex and i broke up about 5 months ago. Although we broke up were still having sex. I feel used but i dont really mind it because he is great in bed. Is it slutty of me to think that?...