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Archived questions from: 28 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Good or bad idea to write him a letter explaining things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I really need some help! My boyfriend of six months and I broke up a month ago and I ahve been devastated. His mom told me a while ago that he was too. For the last month we have been in contact every day and even got back together. I pushed him ...

How do I kindly break up with someone? I still love him and don't want to hurt him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I need to know how to kindly dump someone you still love and don't want to hurt. I've tried it before, but he started balling and at one point hyper-ventilating. I don't think I can do that again. I couldn't stand to see him that way and took it all ...

We broke something that didn't need fixing...and now our relationship is over. Why do I feel so numb?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - My relationship was not broken; it was good, with minor issues, such small issues they should have never been argued over. My boyfriend broke our relationship along with my heart. He was very angry and his nature is very stubborn. Unlike other ...

Should I stay in his life in the hope that he'll see me as his fiance again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - My fiance and I broke up a few months ago after dating for a year. We broke up bc of mounting tensions that all started with our engagement. Things got out of hand and next thing I know he's breaking up with me. It's been 3 months yet we ta...

My ex wants to meet with me in the next few weeks but I'm not sure if I should or not. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - Here is a run down of where I am at in life. I had this girlfriend for a little over 4 years. We broke up about 2 1/2 months ago. She stopped having sex with me 4 months ago. When she broke up with me she assured me everything would be fine, but ...

Will he ever see me as the one?

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28 July 2009 (F) - I dated my ex-bf for a year. We're in our 30s. I pressured him to take the relationship to the next level which is when the problems started. Things started getting tense between us and we started having a lot of tiffs (not fights, just ...

Do you ever find a good relationship again after a break up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I'm not sure if anyone can help but i'm just looking for a bit of hope. Ive recently found myself single again after a very hopeful relationship. I'm devastated, although we had our problems it was basically a v good relationship. This man was the ...

How do people move on when they still love each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Just a quick question. How do I move on from a relationship when the person I love cant be with me? We were together for nearly 2 years and have always been very close although we have had arguments about our situation. Its breaking his heart to...

My girlfriend is pregnant and wants to end our relationship. But I don't want to lose her and our baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5394 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for 14months and we are not married. she is pregnant with our first child and says she wants out of the relationship because i have been neglecting her, and she suspects i'm having an affair with one of my ...

My boyfriend told me he needs a break. What does this mean relationship-wise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - My Boyfriend said to me last night i need a break.. i was shocked at his behaviour..and i still am. i kept saying to him... it means you dont love me anymore, and also i said you have your eye on someone else. you see i have been with this guy ...

We had an affair, then became just good friends. But his wife found out, so now he has stopped contacting me, and I am left heartbroken...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Ive just been told its over by my best friend/ex lover. Me and this married guy had an affair about 2 years ago. It lasted for a year and then we stopped seeing each other like that. But we remained in touch. Gradually we built up a friendship, a ...

Despite seeing another girl my ex says he wants to be friends...Is he being genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Ex lover what does he want? A long distance ex lover who i was seeing for about a year and is older than me. We split mainly due to my nervousness around getting too close and the fact i wasnt able to see him much. So i told him best we went our...

I found out I have Herpes... is there anyone that's going to accept me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I just found out I have herpes...got it from the last guy I was with and am not very happy. Been in bed all day depressed, crying. I feel like my life is over and nobody will ever accept me. I was already having a hard time dating and I feel like ...

Please help me find a way to get over my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5394 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - okay...so my ex has been horrible to me...and then things finally stoped...and it got soo bad my mom had to get involved...and so i miss him...and its been almost 2 yrs and im not completly over him or us...and i dont get what i miss about him...he ...

How can I move forward with my russian girlfriend... My ex won't stop harassing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - My ex-partner and I lived together for about 14 months. We had a foster child who I got along with very well and my partner showed signs of jeolousy. My partner began to become a control freak and eventually the foster child escaped. My partner ...

Why do I still miss my ex-fiance? It's been 7 months since the split and I have a new boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5394 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - i miss my ex fiance. i dated him 3 years, in the beginning of coarse, the relationship is all good. i hear bout him sometimes, i seem like i dont care, but i care so much bout him. the last thing i heard is that hes on drugs, and hes being dumb. i ...

Why no reply to my birthday text?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - an ex spends loads of time playing little games to get my attention, she cheated on me i walked away. It was hard but i never gave her any trouble. she suddenly thinks im seeing someone else (but im not)we eneded 18 month ago. Anyway i aim to be ...

How can I prove that I won't do the things he did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - A girl that i met on a online dating site, who originally approached me online first likes me a lot and I MEAN A LOT, probably the most a girl has ever liked me, and i like her as a person and her looks. Ive seen hundreds of pics of her and she has ...

He swears he has no feelings for me but then he says "I luv you"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - PLEASE TRY TO READ THE WHOLE STORY. I KNOW ITS BORING BUT PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE:( here’s a guy and we are together since 2.5 yrz. our relationship was just fine before the last few months that we started to argue and quarrel A LOT ne...

What is it she wants from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I have a question. My ex-girlfriend had contacted me through facebook out of the blue. We haven't spoke in good terms for about 9 months. When she contacted me, I read on her facebook that she is arguing with a guy and told him that she just ...

I don't know what to do to stop missing him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I miss my ex. We were together for 3 and a half years and have been broken up for over 4 months now and haven't talked at all since we broke up. I have dated people and am seeing someone right now who just wants to date casually or whatever and I am ...