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writes:hello, i have a problem, me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 3 months now, and well... I'm just not happy, she is a year younger than me and a virgin, although i do not want a sexual relationship with her i just know she may be intimidated by me not being a virgin... Anyway, here is my problem, she is cold... Very cold so cold we could spend an entire day together without her so much as look at me, and i get really upset about this... Her cousin assures me that she loves me more than anything but to be fair, i do not believe her... I often see her treat strangers more affectionate then she treats me so i ask myself 'what is the point in us going out?'... Well the truth is i don't know, i dont know if she loves me or not... Granted she isnt very good at relationships and she isnt the smartest person ever... But she just... Ignores me, treats me like a soggy bowl of wheatos... Its really getting to me, im getting increasingly depressed over it, and she knows it. So, any help on why shes being like this and what i could do?
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (29 July 2009):
 I think that you should try talking to her about it and ask her how she feels. Tell her that you'd like her to look at you a little more, touch a little more, maybe hug a little more. At least give her a chance to open up more to you. She might not even realize how her behavior looks to others. Hopefully once you talk things will get better.
Good luck.
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