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writes:good day, i've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. and i love him alot, but we just cant be togather, he is 45 and i 25 and he has a 8 years old child, i do really love him but sometimes actually most of the time we fight coz he has to spend his time with his child and i wanna go out with him and he cant,and coz he has alot of things to do and he is responsible for a house and a kid... and today we had a fight a big fight, and we are over, but i just still feel that i really love him and the most thing i scared about is that i alone now and i lost all my friends and i have no one except him and he is gone now!!i just wanna be strong and i dont know how! i wanna get over him soon.. how can be strong and how can i stop thinking that i cant live without him...when i think of the sweet and nice things we used to do and the way he used to touch me or hug me i cry and be weak and i call him back :-s i dont want to, i wanna change my self and be strong, and have friends ?!! how!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): You are young and have your whole life ahead of you. Get involved in co-ed classes and hobby courses that interest you...there you will find some wonderful men of your own age that may have a lot more in common with you. You are probably fighting because of your age and responsibility differences. It is a lot for you to take on the responsibility of a child that age right now and you should be out there "sowing your wild oats" and having fun as YOU ARE ONLY YOUNG ONCE! I've often regretted not making more of THAT time in my life. When you are really in love, being with that person is easy and NOT full of fighting. Yes, conflicts can arise but when you are with the person who is right for you, things do fall into place a lot easier than you are saying is happening with this older man.Give yourself the GIFT of finding the adventures that your age group has to offer! All the best to you.
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reader, jaecee  +, writes (16 July 2009):
well honey, this man is obviously a good man to put his child first. If you want to get over him you need space and time, lose all contact for a while and enjoy being young, you may find going out and being young free and single is not all its cracked up to be or you will realise you two are on completly different pages in life, your never alone just give one of your old mates a ring. you cant stay with someone coz you are lacking friends tight now but i promise this is something you will get through time is the key
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