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30-35,
*owher
writes:I recently broke up with my boyfriend if 8 months, i know not very long, but still. Great sex life haha. That being the only thing i'll miss. Because when i broke up with him i felt nothing. Not one thing, no guilt, no remorse.. nothing. He asked why and i said i don't know. I still want to sleep with him, but i don't want the attachment of the relationship again. Is it cruel to feel nothing when he get's upset? Ir should i be the bigger person and just end everything, before the new year? help lol... please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): It sounds to me as if the reason you feel no guilt or remorse at having ended the relationship is because whatever was there between you just was not working for you.
Its possible that your ideas about life, and the things you enjoy are just totally different. In other words, you and he were not a good match. That happens.
You say you do miss the sex. I strongly recommend that much as you may want it that you not sleep with him. Because if you do, you'll be hurting his feelings even more and he will still be emotionally attached to you - which you tell us you do not want.
Not only that, but you would be using him to gratify your own sexual desires.
So: do the right thing, end it completely and have no further contact with him! You'll just have to bite the bullet and suck it up, as part of the price you have to pay.
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