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writes:My ex and I broke up over 2.5 years ago. I got over him pretty quickly and am now happily married.The problem is, his "new" girlfriend is an insecure piece of trash and has been cyber stalking me for the past two years. She would send me hateful e-mails and call my home numbers which caused me to have to put her on block and change my numbers. I never responded to any of her taunts and I have not spoken to my ex since we broke up.I did google this girl and found out that she prostitutes herself on websites like craigslist, etc.I despise my ex for giving this crazy chick access to my phone numbers and e-mails and details of our relationship, but should I alert him to what his girlfriend is doing (the prostituting)? I'm assuming he doesn't know, but maybe he's her pimp. Ha.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011): ok so i was with a boy,we'll call him d.d was a good boyriend in some ways and in other ways not.he would call me all the time which i didnt mind and he was there for me but still....it was over the phone.when it came time to us going out and spending time together he never had time for me but he was always out with his friends,who when he went out with he managed to get shot and get into many fights.oh and he has a gun.which i made him get rid of(though i dont think he did).he gave me his password for his facebook so i can keep his profile updated an stuff and i kinda sorta even though i know its bad,went through his messages and saw that he told other girls the same things he told me,olaying all of us i guess.that was the end for me. then i was with a boy named f who i had a crush on for a very long time.he told me he loved me and he was so sweet .....but only in private.when we're at school people would think we probably just know each other.he wouldnt hug me,we never kissed,then he stopped calling.he said he has something to do with his money so he cant buy credit for his phone.so if i dont have credi on my phone to call him we dont talk.then he started getting angry because i didnt stay in my class on a lunch time while he's there instead of going to my extra curiculars.but the thing is when i do stay in class hes with his friends an d im just there.so now he goes complaing about me to my bff's who of course comes back and tells me.so i think im going to end it.but thats not thee only reason why......seee i met someone else.lets call him a.a is sooo sweet and he treas me way better than d or f ever did.and im just so comfy with him.he makes me laugh and comforts me when i'm down(cause my life's kinda comlicated)which is something d or f has never tried to do.he wants to be with me but after d and f i dont want to trust anybody again and be all heartbroken.do you think i should trust him,maybe try a relationship? oh and i've never had my first kiss and hes older thaan me(im 15 hes 16 almost 17)so most likey hes has kissed....alot.is this a bad thing bacause im kinda ashamed of it
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (28 December 2008):
 Yuck, she sounds awful. You know, while it sounds really tempting to let him know about her revenue-enhancing activites *ahem*, I think it will only lead to further involvement with her and him. If he couldn't keep your confidential information actually confidential, he's going to blab to her who told him about her extracurricular money-making activities, and from what you've said, you'll just face more unwanted contact with her.
I guess one option is to print out the craigslist info on plain white paper, put it in an envelope and mail it to him. Wearing gloves the entire time, of course (don't forget to load the computer paper into the printer with the gloves on) and don't lick the envelope. Just in case she works as a CSI. Print out a label and just mail him her charming ads.
But I think your best bet is no contact with either of them. Yuck yuck yuck. Be glad you're rid of him!
Good luck.
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