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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My Boyfriend just broke up with me today...we have been together for about, a year and half a month..so im hurting quite a bit.thing is i dont exactly know why we broke up.. i mean hes not sure eather, he said he didnt want to break up with me and he acctualy cryed... um... well we were talking after the break up and this is the last thing he said i'm going to miss this too but i didnt konw what to do i couldnt take it anymore so i desided that i need a break and that i might come back to you but i dont want to get your hopes up im sorry about doing this to you and i hope that we will be friends forever no mater what happensIm comfused and aparently so is he, how do i prove to him to come back to me and that i can change,and what do u think it might be a reason he broke up with meand dont say another girl cuz it aint!
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reader, krowto  +, writes (30 December 2008):
 my boyfreind did this alot too. sometimes guys just need space. my aunt explained it really good to me one time. she said that guys are like bears. when they are hybernating in their cave, you dont' go in and try to wake them up because it just make them angry. you let them be and when they are doen hybernating they will come out and they'll be back to their normal self. it could be that he doesn't feel that it's right, maybe he needs some time away. if you guys are right for each other then it will work out. just make sure he knows how you feel. if you dont' want a break, let him know. tell him that you want to be with him and you want to make things work. if he needs a break, then let him have it. i hope things work out. but if it doesn't, you'll heal and everything will be ok.
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