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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Help!! I feel like i am in a perfect relationship, yet kicking and screaming inside!! I feel that everything is great, he treats me well, respects me, we have a good time together, and we are living together. Yet despite all this, i am constantly trying to convince myself something is not right, and lately i have been thinking a lot about another man. Would i be wrong to get out of this relationship despite the fact things appear to be fine with us? Sometimes i just crave the feeling of being single, and free. It scares me the thought of being with my guy forever and never being with anyone else. Please help. XX Reply to this Question
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reader, headphonejunkie  +, writes (27 December 2008):
There is a devastating lack of good men in this world that will still treat a woman with respect and dignity. I think the only fair thing to do here is to explain to him that, while you think he is a fair minded and wonderful man, you have an issue within yourself that makes you feel like you cannot be in a monogamous relationship. In all honesty, it was probably a mistake to take the step to live together, and from what you're saying, I'm guessing it was made pretty quickly. You have to do right by him, and not continue this rouse any longer. You don't want the same things that he does, let him find someone who does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2008): First of all let him know how you feel and how the relation got that way. Try to see if the problem can be fixed if not you both should be able to come to an adult and positve agreement.Open and honest is best.
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