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writes:I don't know if this is odd for me to ask but why do I feel so awkward when my boyfriend tells me he pleasures himself when we don't see each other for almost a week, its very understandable but I am questioning myself in why it bothers me at all when it should not? I pleasure myself all the time too when he is not around so why does it bother me when he tells me he played with himself during the week? I have always had this strange feeling about it with all my boyfriends and I just want to understand myself better and maybe you guys can understand from the outside looking in maybe why I am bothered? Okay thank you in advance and I am trying to be serious about this cause I don't understand myself on this issue it strikes me as bizarre and a non issue but i can't seem you get it off my mind. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): It must be because you want him to be pleased by only you. You want to have this right to please him and no one else should even if its him.
That's okay.
You don't have to worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): Maybe you're worried about what thoughts go through his mind when he masturbates? Maybe you're worried he's watching porn, seeing more attractive girls, or thinking about someone other than you, etc.Try not to worry about it, though. Whatever he's masturbating to has nothing to do with you. As long as he doesn't stop pleasuring you, too, no need to worry about it. Maybe asking him will ease your mind, though? Good luck.
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