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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Let's go straight to the topic... I've been seeing this girl for a few months and still have a serious crush on her. I tried to go for a kiss twice, but I'm rather shy and I couldn't get more that an awkward hug.We texted each other every day, and before her 5-day trip to another city we had the worst conversation ever. I asked her if she wanted me to take her to the railway station (I drive a car, no one in her family does), and she told me, a friend of hers (let's call him John) would take care of it. And then she told me she would return $3 for the cinema with my best friend.I was like "What the hell, you won't see him until september anyway, is that your way of telling me we should stop seing each other?"And she was like "We were never seing each other, we were just hanging out like buddies"Geez, I never go to restaurants with buddies, I never buy them flowers 'cause that's weird, don't you think?It's been two weeks now, and I'm still 100% broken and can hardly take part in any activity. I've been dumped by girls before, but at least the accepted there was something. She told me that that part of my life never happend.She keeps texting me from time to time, but I doubt if I should keep in touch with her, as that hurts pretty bad. What do you think?
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (7 August 2011):
 She just downgraded your relationship to friendship as a way of leaving. What you do now is delete everything and never text her or answer any texts. Do not waste any more time here.
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