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What to do when having an affair and you are both married?

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Question - (7 August 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 August 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

if your are married and your significant other is married and you both love each other then what do u do.just keep it on the down low..or stop messing around,,neither of u r divorcing but u love each other to stop being intimate

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2011):

"...just keep it on the down low" Op i dont know whether u are aware of this saying but keeping it on the down low is normally when a man is married and he is having sex with another man!! (just thought i will share this with you)

OP, u are married, your lover is married.

when do u tell your hb and him tell his wife?

from your age i am guessing you both have kids??

just for some illicit sex u want to destory peoples lives.

LoveGirl

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2011):

if you're not willing to give up your marriage, you need to cut all ties with him, and start being faithful to your husband. Delete his number, and get him to do the same. no texts, no calls, no emails, no dates. nothing.

If you don't love your husband anymore, you need to tell him and sort it out. It's not fair on him. How would you feel if it were the other way round?

If you still have feelings for him, start showing it. You made vows to him - it's time to start keeping them!

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