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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So, I'm really crossed between these 2 decisions.I stopped talking to my ex 4 months ago because my friends said that I should... I don't really know why I listened, I can't even remember if that was the reason. I think because our long-distance relationship didn't work at the time, even though he moved away and he only lived near me for our first week of our relationship. So, I kinda can't get him off my mind now. I REEEEALLY wanna text him and see what's up and just say that I lost his number, but I know that might not seem fair, but I do miss him.What should I do?Do you think I could get away with saying I lost his number? Because I want no tension between us if I decide to contact him.
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (10 August 2011):
Do you want this guy back? Do you want to tell him you are so in love with him that you will wait for him and/or move to where he is? Ask yourself if you want a real live boyfriend or a "virtual" one that can only talk and text to you. If you are satisfied with the latter, then by all means, keep in touch as long as he is not involved with anyone at the time.
I am not going to tell you "If its meant to be, it will happen". Relationships aren't "meant" they are continually made between two willing people.
But I will tell you this, you aren't going to get over him any faster by keeping in touch, so if your intent is to put this in the past, do so and don't look back, lest you just want to continue hurting. And you are not going to be getting into anything with any real, live local guys while you are still wearing this issue around your head.
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