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*ickelsin
writes:Right, so I'm dating this amazing girl; she is utter perfection to me but I am on and off about having serious feelings for her. Recently, I met up with an ex of mine and I realised that I still have the deepest feelings for her but I know she's not half the girlfriend my current girlfriend is. How is it that I can't love my current “perfect” girlfriend as much as my ex; who was an okay girlfriend at best and then broke my heart? What's wrong with me? What do I do?P.S. my current girlfriend keeps me so happy that I wouldn't think twice about making her my wife but there's an x-factor she is missing that my ex has. It's all confusing really.
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reader, nickelsin +, writes (18 July 2009):
nickelsin is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your reply, I'll try my best to though my ex really insists on doing a lot of communicating lately.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): I think you just haven't moved on totally from your previous relationship.
Just give it sometime. To do this faster, focus on your current girlfriend as she is the present. Stop all communication with your ex and accept the reality that she is your past.
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