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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Silly question. I went out on a first date with someone I met online on Friday. We went to lunch and had a really fun, pleasant time. I'm usually really good at reading a guy and if he's interested in me but this one straight up confused me. One, usually when I offer to pay the guy refuses and picks up the tab. He didn't and took the money. Here's the big one. Usually if the guy likes you he says "Let's do this again some time" or "I'll call you during the week." He said, "I had a lot of fun. You have my number and email. Let me know if you want to hang out again." Huh? It's not bad, it's just not traditional. Then I was walking to my car and he was in his car and called out to me "Hey, you want a ride to your car?" I thanked him and we hugged again and he also gave me a kiss on the cheek. He's also divorced and I wonder how recent it is. I wonder if it's just been a long time since he's dated and feels unsure of himself. I guess I just always hear, if a guy is interested he'll reach out to you. But he left the ball in my court so should I just shoot him an email? I was thinking I'd shoot him an email on Sunday, not asking him out just casually asking how his weekend was. If he's not interested he just won't respond, right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): i think that if hes not interested he wont respond. And in him, search for friendship, dont think of dating just at yet. I think the most apt advice is to watch the movie 'he's just not that into you'.. i think it will help.
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