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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:going to a party and a girl who rejected me is goin to be there. My friends advise me to avoid her but i know i won't be able to because i will get really annoyed when other guys chat her up and she's dancing with them. Please help i'm trapped i cant get over her!
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 Don't ignore her, it will drive you insane.
Just talk to her casually; be a friend - just realize that she's not yours and she will be talking and dancing with other guys. You need to accept that and not suddenly become possessive.
On the flip side, distract yourself by talking to other girls - flirt a little, ask them to dance. There's no reason you can't have a little fun!
Don't worry, right now it feels like you can't get over her, but you will.
xo
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female
reader, Kiita  +, writes (20 June 2008):
Do not ignore her, treat her as a friend. But see, you cannot stand on her way to get to know new guys. Check if there are any other interesting girls you could be hiting in this party. Let her go.
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