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He put pressure on me and then called it a 'statement' - What does he mean?

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Question - (20 June 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *howstopper writes:

its me again, i had sex with my sex partner and it was good as usually but it was a little different. He seem to have put more pressure on me and i counldn't really take it but i did anyway i guess thats what made it different (idn)so today i phone him and ask him why he sex me the way he did, he reply," to make a statement", but i don't understand that. What do he mean by that?

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A female reader, Susan Strict United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2008):

Susan Strict agony auntSure it makes sense. It's a little sad that he felt the need to do it/say it, but some men are like that.

He did it rather more forcefully than usual? At least, I assume that's what you're saying. His "statement" is "I'm the big man and you've just been f***ed".

As I said, sad. But never mind. He'll grow up.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008):

I don't like it, don't like it at all. What's this "statement" thing. He's in bed, it's not a police station or a court of law. Why is he testing you, did you pass or fail. Sounds strange to me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008):

I don't know what it meant but it doesn't sound at all nice.

Could you please send us a link to your other questions.

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A female reader, scrazy Canada +, writes (20 June 2008):

scrazy agony auntI have absolutely NO idea what he means by "making a statement"...

Does he like to be in control? Maybe that was his statement; he's dominating you?

I'm sorry, but hopefully one of the uncles can explain this to you.

The best advice I can offer you is to go to him and ask him what he meant.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008):

Ask /him/ - might just be crazy enough to work!

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