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writes:I've been with my girlfriend 5 years and we have lived together for about 3. We have a daughter together. I recently asked her to marry me and she said no and said it made her feel like i didn't value her.I'm confused, i asked to spend the rest of our lives together and she says i don't value her, whats going on in her head?Now i'm getting to wondering she ain't really commited and if i am, i'm going to end up getting hurt. Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): this might sound reallly silly, but maybe it was the way you asked her? she might have been expecting something really special because of the time you have spent together, she prob pictured this great proposal but never got it.
ask her y she said u dont value her first.
then maybe re-propose in a romantic special way?
i duno, im just guessing, us girls get abit emotional when it comes to engagements, weddings, we imagine the best:S
love and god bless
friend x
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (20 June 2008):
 Hi Hunny
You have spent 5yrs with this lady lived together for 3yrs have a beautiful little girl you ask her to marry you and she said no as it made her feel you dont value her?????Hunny I think you need to sit down and ask her straight out what on earth she could possibly mean, No she feels that if she gets married she will feel less valued or no if she get married you will not care about her the same. WOT! You need to no love, You have put 5yrs into a foundation for a family you have a child and now you want to seal that. You need a good chat sweetheart so you no just whats going through her head and as soon as poss for your own peace of mind..TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008): You know this question is very weird.. Why dont you set her down and ask her why she said you dont value her.. Say I resppect your answer.. But why did you say no.. I hope this helped you.. I really dont know whats going on with her... Maybe shes scared to make a commitment.. Any more questions email [Modnote:emailremoved]
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008): You need to talk to her maybe she is upset that it took you this long to ask her to marry you? Talk to her Communication is key and what women want.
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