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writes:Okay so basically, I'm a straight 16-year-old girl. But last night, I had this dream where I was me trapped in a guy's body. Then this really beautiful girl walked over and made me lie on my back. Then she started touching all over my back. And then we had sex. What the heck does it mean? I don't think I'm a lesbian...Oh yeah, and then after we had sex, I was me again (like me in my own body) and a really gorgeous guy came up to me and gave me a really secure, loving hug and I felt so safe. Then we kissed for hours.What does it mean? I'm straight, I know I'm straight. Just this dream is confusing me like you wouldn't believe...
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 A question that comes up now and then is one sex asking the other what it feels like. How does a vagina feel, how does a penis feel. What is it like to fuck a woman etc etc.
Is your dream not simply a thought experiment of what is like to be the guy? After all you did NOT have lesbian sex in your dream, you had hetero sex.
Dreams are a place where the mind can process the events of the day, a safety net, a place to experiment.
Yes, you can make some sense out of it at a most basic level, "You are horny and curious" but I wouldn't make to much out of it.
Oh and it has long been known that there are lots of greys between straight and homo-sexual and very few of us are 100% one or the other. Relax, you are just human.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008): The meaning of dreams is very complex, but I personally have done a lot of research in order to come to terms with my own strange dreams.
Dreaming that you are having sex with a woman does not mean you are lesbian. From all the resources I've been to, it means that you are embracing a part of yourself that you haden't before. Maybe your personality is developing? Or maybe you're just finding out who you are, that is what being a teenager is all about!
Hope this helps!
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reader, Manximus  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 I think the beautiful girl in your dream symbolised you and the guy was your fantasy partner. You did to yourself what you would like a guy to do to you. You basically saw yourself from a guys perspective. Then once the sex was over, you were able to cuddle this guy and feel really happy and secure.
I think this dream signifies the type of person you are. You emjoy romance, passion, security and intimacy. You probably have desire to be the one in control sexually also. Although you are probably quite shy and timid when it comes to sex.
Just my 2 pennies worth on the subject.
I don't see any sexuality issues at all in this dream, just your innermost desires.
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reader, °Ale°  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 Well, I have absolutely no clue as to the meaning of your dream, but that was bizarre!
However, you did mention that in the dream you were a guy, so its not like you're picturing yourself otherwise. Maybe you're just sexually frustrated ?
Who knows! But keep enjoying those dreams :)
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reader, countrygirlWV +, writes (20 June 2008):
 Hey I'm staighter than a staight person can get and I've a dream pretty close to that. I'm pretty sure it doesn't mean nething. This might sound stupid and lesbo.... But I'm NOT... I have always wanted a penis for a day just to know what it feels like. I wouldn't think to much on it though because I've had a dream that animals take over the would but that's not true. But in my opinion it doesn't mean anything. Just keep on loven the package that hanges.
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