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anonymous
writes:Okay. Well Ive had sex and my boyfriend seems to cum early... But the last two times we had sex, we were at it for a long time but I got dry... So were gonna buy lube, but the fact is I have never came while haven sex but I can make myself cum.. What do I do to make my self cum?
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reader, ariesgurll324 +, writes (1 December 2008):
thats now true alot of women that are "of age" cant make themselves orgasm while having sex.it has nothing to do with your age.im grown and it took me a while to at first..so yeah you're young but if you're being smart about it then thats your decision.but as far as an orgasm goes you have to find your spot and guide him to it
focus on your clit area.its difficult but with time it will come..you must also be very relaxed and aroused by that person.you are young so just dont make the mistake of only having sex for his pleasure only,that makes it pointless to involve you.it only effects your body,and wastes your time because he can use his hand,your body is precious no matter how many times you do it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008): do what i do! use a vibrator to stimulate your clit whilst he penetrates you. It works every time! And if you explain to him he will be fine. Im sure he would rather you orgasm with a little aid, than not at all. Explain to him that you need him too, my husband is fine with the fact i need a lil extra help! x
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 jesus how old are you? you are not ready to have sex, which means your body isnt either! and the fact that you are asking this question just goes to show how little you know about sex and how you are still too young to be having it. you must understand that it takes women alot longer to cum then it does guys. we need clitoral stimulation too - not just penetration. and use protection - the last thing you need is an STD at your age!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008): Yeah, you need to talk to a few teenage moms out there to see how rough life can be when you give in to your (boyfriend's) sexual urges. My older sister was a single mom for a long time, as the baby's father didn't want to marry her. It was pretty rough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008): The reason your having problems is because your too young to be having sex. I have no advice to give you. Come back and talk to us if you still have this problem once you come of age.
Oh yea, use protection. You wouldn't like to add pregnancy and disease to the list of stupid mistakes you have already made in your short young life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008): Vow, does your parents know that you are having sex?
I think you are very young to be sexually active.
You can use lubrication and also guide your boyfriend what to do, how to stimulate you.
Please use PROTECTION, to avoid STD's, AIDS and unwanted Pregnancy.
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reader, Sophia_Sweetheart  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 Hey!
Well I think the problem here honey is you need more clitoral stimulation, so try rubbing yourself or getting a vibrator to use while you're having sex.
I'm not going to lecture you on how you're most probably underage as you've already had sex, but please don't make any big mistakes that you'll regret later on. And remember, protection! You wouldn't want to become pregnant would you sweetheart.
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