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*nglish chick!
writes:Hi.My friend made me dump my b/f because she made it clear she plain hates! him.I love him, but i'm torn i half now, not knowing i have him.I hate choseing!Friend or boyfriend, friend or boyfriend?!?!!?aaaaahhahahahahahahhhhhhh!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, babewithbrains  +, writes (27 August 2008):
 Nah don't tell her - if she brings it up, say yeha, well, he's history or something along those lines.
Jelly
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reader, English chick! +, writes (25 August 2008):
English chick! is verified as being by the original poster of the question He's dumpee me, my friend don't know and i'm NOT going to tell her!
I hate him now!..Wanna know why he dumped me?!?!..He said I was weird!Me??!!?? Yeah right emo guy, go and slit ur wirst's or something!!
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (10 July 2008):
 I would usually say that friends come first no question but under these circumstances, this is not what I'm going to say.
If she was a true friend, she would not make you decide between her and your boyfriend.
How does your relationship with this boy include your friend?
Why go out of your way to make your friend happy when she clearly doesn't care about your happiness?
I think you should talk to your friend and say "I'm sorry you don't like so-and-so, but I really care about him and he makes me happy and by you making me decide between you both, you're making me unhappy and it drives a wedge between us. Please try to accept that we are trying to make a go of this, and you making me decide, to me is not what a good friend does."
If she doesn't accept this, you need to leave her to her own devices because if she's not even going to attempt to be happy for you, then she's not worth it and therefore leave her to stew.
Don't leave your boyfriend to give her happiness because she clearly has no concern about yours.
So to conclude, my advice is to talk to your friend, tell her how you feel and ask her politely to try and be happy for the both of you. If she doesn't, then you know you're dealing with someone who isn't good friend material.
Whether she accepts it or not, get your guy back because this relationship involves you and him. No middle man.
Hope it goes well,
Take care xx
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