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writes:Ok got a question. I know all women are different "down there", but what do you guys generally think of labia or flaps or whatever you want to call them. I've seen girls who have really short labias, and then girls with really puffy labias and then girls who almsot have flap labias. Do men have a preference? Reply to this Question
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reader, clyde88  +, writes (30 June 2011):
don't worry most guys love them all, if they don't move on!! Don't show it to everybody, wait for a guy you really are in love with
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reader, Shae15 +, writes (25 January 2011):
I couldnt care less what people think about me iv got puffy flaps and it really doesnt bother me dont be worried or shy about it you should be proud of what you have if a man boy girl or women cant accept u then there not worth the trouble im bisexual and i havent had any complaints yet keep ya head up cause ur lovely just the way u are :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): the tighter the better man.................especially wth puffy lips mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (11 July 2008):
 I would say that most men in our porn filled world KNOW that all women are different down there and just take whatever is there without giving it any real thought.
Might as well ask what kind of nipples men like. Hint: the type that are attached to boobs.
It really is just a silly question. But okay, there are lots of variety in penis as well, circumsized or not, bend or straight, color? Veins? Big sack or small one, hairy or shaved?
Really, once clothes are starting to come off most people just accept whatever they find.
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reader, Sandman +, writes (11 July 2008):
 I haven't seen a vag in over a year. So right now it really doesn't matter to me what the darned things look like - so long as I'm able to look!
But if I had a choice, I like puffy lips.
Hope this helps.
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (11 July 2008):
 Difficult question. Aesthetically speaking, It's not just the size, it's also the shape of the labia. Some are large and regular, some are small and irregular. Some are quite fleshy and hang out, some are incredibly fleshy but are neat and stay inside.I think you learn to love what your girl has.
If you want an "objective" opinion, like admiring a work of art, well...
A girl with hardly anything there would be nice to look at but rather unsatisfying because there would be nothing to chew on!
Aesthetically speaking, super huge doesn't look very nice, especially if it's irregular.
But of course, the proof of the pudding, as they say, is in the eating. Flavour, juiciness, and a lot of other factors are more important when you actually get down there.
Perhaps I haven't shed much light on the er.... situation, but I hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): It really doesn't matter, but if I had a choice, I like rather small flappy ones. Ones that are about 1/2 inch long. But, hey, if I'm seeing them then all is good and it makes no difference.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008): I too have certainly encountered many different shapes and sizes of pussy lips and personally, I prefer a woman to be fairly trim in that department but a bit of 'flappiness' is not a problem at all. However for me, what is really important is the size/ tightness of the vagina. So long as a woman takes care of herself after childbirth regarding pelvic floor exercises, there is no problem at all. One thing guaranteed to turn me off is a neglected, saggy, loose vag!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008): Any pussy is a nice pussy as far as a man is concerned.
The rather larger labia are often termed 'Elephants Ears', the slightly smaller ones 'Piss flaps' and an average one a fanny (in the UK).
Whatever, variety is the spice of life and any little surprise at what a man finds down there is a nice surprise. On a winters day, there's nothing better to keep a man's nose warm.
Wouldn't it be a boring world if everyone was identical?
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reader, desirewhitefire  +, writes (10 July 2008):
 I asked my husband and he gave me an odd look, like that's the last question he would ever expect to be asked. I really don't think it matters.
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