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female
age
41-50,
*heoneandonlybutterfly
writes:He is always tell me what am i doing wrong and it is really become a problem everyday it's something like i forgot to say something or i dont pay attention to him and listen to what he got to say it's always something but the funny part about it i dont do it to him why is that and what can i do about this i have talk to him several times and ask him to stop but it is something about him he said he needs to fixes but it happens everyday and i about to call it quits but we being together for about 1 year and half and i love him dearly what can i do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, link2067 +, writes (10 July 2008):
 Funny that my gf says the same thing about me...Im about 5 years older than my gf. We have had our ups and downs but always seems to want to work it out in the end. We(men) often have difficulties expressing need and want when it comes to women. We dont want to neccesarily give you the answers, but we want you to know. What helped me somewhat ease up on her was understanding that she is trying, she asked me for patience and understanding. Sometimes us(men) critisizing our mates is a way of hiding something that we may be stressed about. I ended up having to open up and tell her how I really feel on certain things and together we are constantly working on our communication habits...explain to him how you feel in a calm manner, he should be willing to except it
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