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writes:I have been in a relationship with my bf for over 2 years. He is not really settled with his career and neither am I. There is no talk about moving in together or a future. Not sure what I should do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008): Not much information to work from;
but I get the feeling that you are uncertain of the direction or future of the relationship;
Do you love him?
Then I suggest you talk to your boyfriend; discuss the future of the relationship; how you both feel; what are your individual WANTS AND NEEDS;
see if you have a FUTURE PLAN that suits both and take it from there;
It might be good for you to do some Introspection and stock taking of what you want from the relationship; how you plan your future before you have the TALK; otherwise you might be sitting there not knowing what you want.
Hope things work out for you;
Best wishes
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