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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR OVER SIX YEARS AND WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ALMOST TEN. LAST THREE MOTHS WE'VE BEEN GOING THROUGH HELL IN OUR RELATIONSHIP TO THE POINT OF BREAKING UP. HOWEVER WE ARE STILL TOGETHER, BUT NOW HE SAYS TO ME THAT IF I WANTED TO F...SOMEBODY ELSE, IT WOULD BE OK BY HIM. DOES THIS MEAN THAT HE IS CHEATING ON ME? THANK YOUNote from moderator: Your questions will be deleted in future if you continue to post in all capital letters. In future, post all your questions in standard lower-case lettering. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): It is possible. Three months after six years is not such a long time and no marriage is straightforward without any bad patches. Try to talk to your husband. He could be cheating on you or he could be saying this to see your reaction and need some reassurance.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (1 January 2008):
 Well, I'd say it's not common but there is no answer that is really accurate. Anything is possible. The fact you're asking the question tells me you think it's atrange too. Most men do not want their partner sleeping with another man.
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