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I'm 14 and in love with a 30 year old and don't know what to do

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Question - (1 January 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *cuababy93 writes:

I'm in love with a guy who is 30 im 14 I really love him he isnt married but he has a girlfriend with a 5 yr old son I loveee his son to death his girl I wish she would drop dead hes my cuzins friend I'm always at my cousins house seeing him he flirts with me I love it I'm not a virgin and I'm willing to have sex with him but being Hispanic my mother is really strict so I cant date anyone not even boys my age imagine a thirty yr old man but I really love him and I feel like writing him on myspace but I don't know how he would react please help me guys

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A female reader, ecuababy93 United States +, writes (2 January 2008):

ecuababy93 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank You Guys So Much For Everything YOu guys Werent Really Help But Whatever some Of You Were Nice Retards I wasnt Really Talking About her dying its cause she's a really mean person So Whatever Thank You guys

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

Thank You Guys So Much For Everything YOu guys Werent Really Help But Whatever some Of You Were Nice Retards I wasnt Really Talking About her dying its cause she's a really mean person So Whatever Thank You guys

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A female reader, dearkelja United States +, writes (1 January 2008):

dearkelja agony auntThis 30 year old is not flirting with you. He's being nice to the cute little girl. Please don't mistake a man being nice to you as a sexual invitation.

Otherwise, I agree with all the other posts.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

Fairy_Lu agony auntHow evil are you wishing someone dead thats so selfish you wishing someone dead so this guy that you "love" can be unhappy because the woman he most likely loves is dead, lets face it you and him are NEVER going to happen it would be a crime and think of all the friends he would lose he could even lose his job nobody wants to work with a peadophile (yes he would be classed as that) i would forget this he is with someone else he has a child just leave him alone and find someone else your AGE!

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A female reader, xxbaybeegal United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

xxbaybeegal agony aunti totally understand your situation but do you think that if you managed to have sex with this 30 year old man you would be happy, and how can you want his gf to just drop down dead thats a little mean maybe its just thoughts about this guy you want but im sure your guy will come along one day

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008):

your 14, a LITTLE GIRL, ACT YOUR AGE !!!!

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A female reader, x-Happy-Feet-x United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

x-Happy-Feet-x agony auntyes i agree this is selfish think of the boy and think of the man you may love him but dont make death threats and things like that your really young and it would be so wrong so dont i mean it but seriously girl you need some sence

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A female reader, chrissy32789 United States +, writes (1 January 2008):

chrissy32789 agony auntHey when i was 16 i was with a 30 year old guy he was a single dad because his wife past away from cancer. I was there for him and his kids but it did not work out because of our age diffrence and if one person found out about use he would be sitting in jail so i broke up with him. I am still friends with him and his kids, and we are just fine. But you really need to think about this you are 13 you want to wish death on his wife, you need to think not only about yourself, he has a kid and a wife that is that kids mother you go and fuck around with him not only will he loose his child but he will be in jail for a long time for rape and they will take that baby away from him, do you want that for him? You go and tell your mom that you want to be with a 30 yr old she will call the cops and you will be going through court if you cant date a guy your age why try to get a 30 yr old. Trust me i am not the type to judge someone about there age gap i am 18 my husband is 26 my mom is 40 married to a 65 yr old, but once there is a child involed ill be the first one to tell you that it is selfish and you need to think about that child!

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntThis is the reason Animals eat their young and Jerry Springer is filthy rich.

I think you should tell your mother. if she's as strict as you say maybe she'll smack some sence into you.

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

starfairy agony auntWhat a stupid selfish little girl you are. You'd wish death upon an innocent woman so you could make a move on her boyfriend?

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