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writes:I had been dating a girl for about 2 weeks, and then last night she dumped me completely out of the blue.And today she told me the reasoning behind it was that she wanted some time to be single, but she really liked me, but she just wanted some time to discover herself.Anyway she's now coming over my house for 2 days and nights, but she insists she just wants to remain really close friends.And i really want to be with her, but i dont know what the best way to way to approach her is. Any ideas?Or should i just not try at all? Reply to this Question
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (2 January 2008):
I'm interested in seeing what other's have to say because i was about to post a similar question but nevertheless let me add my own.
In your case,i would strongly suspect her feelings for you have faded.She's merely infatuated with you.Despite dating my gal for a longer time,she gave me da same reason.As a man in a very similar situation i would advise you to reduce contact and try your best to move on.Why? Because it'll always hurt you when you are together that she's no longer your gal.I certainly am not doing the same but it's better for you.Unless you have a strong heart like mine and endure all da pain just to be with your love.
Good luck.
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