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How can we tell if my gf is starting to orgasm??

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Question - (1 January 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 3 February 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Me and my girl had 1st time sex about 2 months ago[we're both 19]. Since then we've been having regular intercourse. Just recently ,during sex,my girl has started to "call out" and grasp the bedding.

She says it's pleasure and just has to let go but isn't sure if she's started to orgasm because she thinks a lass needs to be a lot older to get one. How can we tell? cheers

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008):

A girl can tell if she has an orgasm if the any of the following happen; nipples get hard,feet extend outward do to how much pleasure she is feeling,and goosebumps are formed on her arm and thigh area. (one of the two areas.)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

I'm 15 And I Get Them When Me & My Boyfriend Have Sex So You Don't Have To Be Older To Get Them. It Sounds Like Your Girlfriend Is Close But Hasn't Actually Finished. Don't Worry About Not Knowing If She's Finished Or Not Because People Act Differently When They Get Close. Just Carry On What You're Doing & I'm Sure Your Girlfriend Will Finish.

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A female reader, hellogoodbye123 United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2008):

Girls can have orgasms at any age from the beginning of puberty. It sounds like she's at least close to orgasms but i think she'd know if she had one. It feels like a massive release of warmth through your body and girls often tremble or shake afterwards (but in a good way). Also the vagina muscles with spasm and tighten up during it so you may be able to feel it yourself.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

This certainly sounds close to orgasm at least, but she should eventually feel a tremendous release of tension, a warm feeling all over, maybe tingling and other sensations that have been described to me. She doesn't need to be older to feel these things. Ask her what she enjoys sexually and keep doing them.

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A female reader, x-Happy-Feet-x United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

x-Happy-Feet-x agony auntyes this is a orgasm she obviously dont no what it is but yes thats an orgasm and no age and everythingg has nothing to do with it once youve gone through puberty x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008):

If she's grabbing stuff and making sounds, more likely than not she's having an orgasm. And yeah, many women's vagina will tighten up. What's nice is if you can get her doing that over and over in the same session.

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (1 January 2008):

Ponungalungb agony auntI just want to know what she is "calling out"? Bingo numbers? Trivia questions? Or Latin phrases? LOL.

In any event, she sounds like she's well on her way to euphoria. LOL.

Pass the ketchup, please.

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntwhen you have an Orgasm.

Male or Female. YOU KNOW.

women take longer to "Get going" then men.

As men the Giggle stick is a simple up/down repeat action.

this is why we're so good at videogames and women arn't.

Alot of women don't masturbate. As i once said to my gf who'd never had an orgasm with anyman.

" If you don't know what you like how the hell am i ment to know?"

also. and i don't share this out. but it works.

middle and index finger. make the "Come hither" or the "Beconing" motion.

put the gf on the bed laying down, put a pillow under the lower back, and once under her butt so it lifts it. this curves the body.

insert about an inch and its about 2 inches up. roughly at the back of the clit.

Do the motion keeping a steady pace and you and your gf can buy me a pizza later.

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A male reader, Dr. John United States +, writes (1 January 2008):

Dr. John agony auntOne survey shows that about 0.2% start at age 11. The percentage goes up to 21% having their first orgasm at age 15, going gradually back down to 10.2% at age 19.

I think one way you can tell if she is reaching a climax is if she begins to call out and grasp the bedding and has a very pleasurable sensation and has to let go........Guess what! I think she is having an orgasm.

With that out of the way, enjoy. Doc

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008):

Hya no girls dont have to be older to get an orgasm and it sounds lyk she hasnt had an orgasm because she would no and she wouldnt have any doubt. You can tell if a womans having an orgasm through differant ways there face can become flushed there breathing quickens and if you feel the muscle in her vigina dunno wot its called it should be contracting and relexing i think about 10 times continuously.

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