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writes:ok...well i have a new boyfriend everything was good at first...but now hes not attractive or anything to me anymore and i want to end it, but i dont know..and i like somebody alot. i kind of love them and they make me laugh, there sweet and just feel right..and i just used my boyfriend to get over my last because i was so sprung...well my unwantd boyfriend is litterly in love with me....so how do i break it off? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): First Of All, using him to get over your last boyfriend is kinda harsh, because he's going to get hurt like you got hurt from your previous realationship.
Plus Your Only Young, So you have plenty of time to stress about this kind of thing, just enjoy the rest of your childhood (:
Anyway Back to The Question;
Just Sit him down in a quiet little corner and explain that you would much rather be friends, And Say You Don't Want This To effect your friendship but your feelings have changed about him. Then reassure him that he is not to blame.
HOPe i Helped (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): You are way too young for this kind of stuff, but i think you should have an honest talk to him and explain just how you feel. Dont stay with someone out of pity, if you dont have any feelings for him then move on, finish with him, be firm, he will thank you in the long run for being honest.
take care
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reader, quarky  +, writes (3 April 2008):
 do what my ex's did to me, just start ignoring him! he'll get the vibes and move on! oh and no mixed signals please (guys get really confused with that!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): Well I think you should just tell him that you are not as attractied as you used to be and you feel more like friends with him now ....and tell him that you want to still be close but not like boyfriend and girlfriend. But don't be harsh about it and try not to hurt his feelings.
thats all the advice I have for you . I hope it helped in some way :)
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