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writes:I am so energetic when I'am doing sex. I am morethan 30 years old and Still I can't satisfied because of HIV(doing with condum) so who can share me????????. or what do you idvice me??????. Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 April 2008):
 It's difficult to give advice to someone who lives something we don't. I think allenrobin's is a fantastic post. However, I think that the fact that Ebb has HIV makes him all the more prone to wanting sex, perhaps as a surrogate of love.
Ebb, I think you should tell anyone you're interested in sleeping with that you're HIV positive. I also think you should try to relate to people in all ways possible, not only in sex. I know that's hard; I met an HIV-positive guy who was giving away flyers in a gas station, and he said that some people wouldn't even take his flyers (pieces of paper, damn it) when he let them know about his disease.
I heard that HIV positive people resent the fact that they sort of need to give up the company of other people and have to be related to other HIV-positive people only. I don't recommend you do that. However, perhaps it would be an option ifyou found someone who were also HIV positive and was compatible with you. I understand that re-infection can occur, and that's a risk, but I think that there you would find a partner who would see the world the way you see it, and who would perhaps be more loving and understanding than another person.
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reader, allenrobin  +, writes (2 April 2008):
 First- I do hope that your sexual interludes are with partners who know you have HIV. Second- Maybe you cannot be satisfied because you are trying to cover other psychological needs with sex when sex is not what you need.
People who are HIV positive tend to feel almost tainted and spoiled in a way a person who does not have HIV could never understand. This is because of the publics misguided perception that HIV is one of those diseases that affect only "Those nasty people". Also some people who are HIV positive are prone to depression and then put on anti-depressants which can kill the joy of sex and even prevent climax. Why not try to reach out to others in a more full-filling way than sex.
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