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writes:He lives far from us, I know they keep in touch but I believe it's her, the one e-mailing him, so he replies as she shows me the emails. The truth they had nothing more than friendship.But this guy is moving to Italy for a month and my friend told me she wrote to him declaring somewhat her feelings, and she showed his reply.He said he'll definitely be in touch with her when he's back. Is it that they are finally getting into cheating?She's my room-mate and my friend, she always being like my sister, cuz I've known her since very little and won't like her to get into trouble. Should I warn her about that? I'll show her your answers, so for her not to think it's just me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): In situations like this, people dont listen to anyone else. It doesnt mean they are going to cheat. Maybe he is already thinking of leaving his wife regardless. Or maybe he's trying to give her the brush off gently by saying he'll be in touch when he gets back (as in, dont call me, i'll call you).
You can advise her to stay away from him, i'm a big believer that women should support other women and we should be each others biggest fans (cos god knows there are a few men willing to treat us like crap so we gotta stick together!) you can tell her it wont go anywhere good and if she really has feelings for this guy to wait and see if his relationship with his wife ends before she does anything.
But you can only advise her, she makes her own decisions and in my experience people who have really strong feelings for other people tend to lose all logical thought.
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