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36-40,
*cottishguy
writes:hi im a 22yr old gay man ive recently came out and everyone has been great about it. ive been seeing my boyfreind for about 6month and things at the beggining were great. But now i find him to have bad habbits that really annoy me. also i feel as if he is copying me, e.g trying to get same job as me. wanting to but same car as me. buying all the cd's and movis i have. i dont no if im bein paranoid because this is my first relationship where im out. also our sex life is a bit weird now. im now to scared to do anything with him and i dont no why?i also keep having thought about am i maybe bi. its only sometimes im attracted to guys but with girls i can see there good lookin but i dont want to have or anything like that with them.advise would be grately appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Whether your relationship is straight or gay, there are bound to be problem areas as we are all human beings and different.
If there are problems in your sex life they are probably due to the problems in the relationship as a whole.
Maybe you could discuss this. Try and find out, without getting angry if possible, why he want to copy or compete with you. Do this gently as he could have serious issues and you don't want to make things worse.
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reader, angelina-katey  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 This is normal in any relationship. Your partner is just curious about what is your likes and dislikes. He wants to fit in to your personality. Give it time you will see that when your feeling are stronger you will find yourself doing the same thing.
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