A
female
age
16-17,
anonymous
writes:I like a guy whos in the same year as me in college!!! The only problem is that hes got a girlfriend of 9 months!!!!I've been friends with him for about 18 months and we became good friends about a year ago, he told me a couple of times over msn that he liked me, however he didn't give me a chance to admit that i liked him back as he said nothing could happen because his ex-girlfriend was one of my mates. However i think he knows that i like him anyway and i think he would have asked me out if we had gone out on our own, as he asked me to go to the cinema and stuff with him and then he'd act all weird saying one of my mates or his could come with us!!! I'm now wishing i had gone out on my own as it could be me going out with him now!!!It was a major shock when he told me he was going out with this girl as she was also a friend of his ex-girlfriend and he said he had something to tell me, i thought hw was going to say he liked me properly!!!Have i just got the wrong side of the picture??? Did he only ever like me as a friend??? And am i doing the right thing by ignoring my feelings and just being there for him when he needs me???sorry about me rambling on for a long time!!!X X X X
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reader, Aly Jane  + ♥, writes (11 April 2008):
 Yes, you should hold your feelings back. Don't risk hurting yourself by puting your feelings out on the line. I think at one time he liked you, but changed his mind. I don't know why, maybe the age difference is too large.
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