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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've met this man 18 years my senior. Im 45. We gets on well and I love being round him. Our sex life is great. He can do it twice times a day. It's amazing for his age. I really enjoy making love to him. But it doesnt last long. A year on he finds it hard pounding on me which is highly pleasurable to me. I love him and dont want to leave him for someone else. I dont know what to do. Please help.
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reader, DoubleM  + ♥, writes (12 April 2008):
 Are you the same woman basically asking the same question over and over again? You obviously enjoy your much older lover, and even if he cannot "pound" the pud quite as much or hard as you would prefer, you apparently have a great lover nevertheless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): My fiance is 51 and gives the most fantastic oral ive ever known in my life. He is amazing in bed. I never used to understand what women see in older men, now I know. he could give younger men a run for their money. !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Hi,i am with a guy who is 60, i am 30 and sex is fantastic. It the best sex ever...i have always went for older guys. If you are enjoying it at the moment,maybe if you try different positions with him, it may make it easier. Sex is important in a relationship, if you love him then there are ways of working things out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Perhaps a bit more foreplay so that you are almost to orgasm point before he gets inside you?
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reader, Annalisa + ♥, writes (11 April 2008):
 You don't need to contemplate ending the relationship, just talk to him about your needs. It's natural for couples to become complacent.
Ask him to spend more time on giving you manual or oral pleasure before intercourse. If you come before him, you can come again with him and be satisfied.
If he has trouble staying hard, he could try Viagra, but I get the feeling you're just missing him pouncing on you.
I think he's just happy and relaxed with you. You need to tell him you miss him being more passionate, tell him you need to feel he wants you!
Ultimately, sex isn't everything in a relationship, but being unable to talk about it with your partner can hinder other aspects of your relationship. So talk!
God bless and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Would you really consider leaving him just because he is now finding it a bit hard to last. God what a terrible woman. My fiance is 51 and fantastic in bed, more so than anyone younger Ive ever known. He takes viagra occasionally and it is bloody amazing, but he knows that I would love him even without sex (which I am very hot for) I love him unconditionally, you cant say you love this man then say you could leave him. You are a fool to even consider it.
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reader, pyan  +, writes (11 April 2008):
Hi
you may need to explain how long he last and what you expect. Also do you use forplay before to make you orgasm that way first.
good luck and enjoy
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