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writes:heya, im 15 but it really doesnt matter about my age im just in need of a little help you see my mate who i dearly love (as a mate) is hurting really bad because a few weeks ago her mum confronted her and her family (dad and brother)that she had an afaire my friend was destrought and her mum said that she wouldnt go doing it again but a few weeks later my mate was getting her mums bag and spotted a text that asked her mum to move to uk with a different man and now shes scared that her mum is going to get up and leave. how should i help her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): I would guess that if your mate's mum went to all the trouble of informing the family that she'd had an affair, with all the hassle that entailed, then it's over. She wouldn't tell everyone if she was still 'at it' would she?
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reader, rcn +, writes (3 October 2007):
 What can you really do aside from being the best friend you can be to her. If it was me I'd ask her. If you go to school where there is a counselor, I'd go with her to talk to them as well. The problem with what happened is confronting the whole family with this indiscretion. So instead of your friend worrying about what teens should, she now has an "adult" issue weighing on her mind.
Did she see just the incoming text or the return text saying yes or no. Her mom could have said no, screw off, don't contact me again. Somehow, without causing further issues, the truth needs to come out. She doesn't need to carry this pain with her, if her mom said no and has no intentions of leaving.
Please remind her of this: Just because this had happened, the behavior of her parents DOES NOT determine who she has the possibility of becoming in her life.
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