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What are the relationship 'bases'?

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Question - (2 October 2007) 11 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, *aybee-x-sparkii writes:

What are the bases in relationships??

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A male reader, Ace20 Australia +, writes (3 October 2008):

First base-Kissing (open mouth)

Second base- Some take this as touching above the belt, under the clothes, others take it as touching down under, (down the pants or up the skirt.

Third base- Deppends on what you take as second base, can either mean oral or touching down under.

Home Run- as said before, pretty obvious

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2008):

First: Kissing or frenching

Second: Actually being on top o eachother but just kissing (all types)

Third: "Feeling" I think you know what I mean.

Fourth (or home): I don't think I have to say.

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A male reader, jjakesalvatoe United States +, writes (4 September 2008):

okay...

its like baseball in a way...

1st base is kissing

2nd is feeling her breasts

3rd is oral

HOME is sticking ur bat into her bullpen it u know wat i mean

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008):

Base 1 is Kissing, ranging from just a peck and going onto Frenching it up.

Base 2 is Physical Stimulation, as she puts her hands all over you.

Base 3 is Oral Stimulation, when she has a taste of you and your body.

And finally, Base 4 is Sex.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008):

first- making out second- "touching"

third- oral

home run- kind of obvious

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007):

FIRST BASE - any form of kissing (but mainly meaning pulling)

SECOND BASE - hand job or fingering

THIRD BASE - blow job either boy or girl

FOURTH OR HOME RUN - I'll leave this to your imagination...

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (3 October 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntin the american sense uncle phil is correct.

In the other sense the others are correct.

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A female reader, xxmissxx United Kingdom +, writes (2 October 2007):

xxmissxx agony auntIts not just about sex in a relationship or so others have put it, the sexual bases.

The bases (as in foundations) that hold a relationship together are (as said before) trust, loyalty etc.

You show eachother compassion, affection as in kissing, holding hands, but love also contributes to a relationship and to get love, the more time you spend with eachother and the more you learn about eachother and the more you entertwine with eachother, then the more love grows.

This contributes to the bases of a relationship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007):

or it could be:

First base - kissing

Second base - groping her tits

Third base - hand inside her knickers

Fourth base - knickers off and hiding the sausage.

Phil

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007):

What do you mean by bases? Like getting to 1st base is holding hands, those sort of bases??

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A female reader, leanne.od United Kingdom +, writes (2 October 2007):

leanne.od agony aunttrust, honesty, loyalty, happiness, attracted to each other, get along, enjoy each others company, same interests (not essential but does help), same sense of humour,... the list continues.

but the main foundations are trust, honesty and loyalty.

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