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writes:Hi guys and gals, my boyfriend is really self-conscience about how long he lasts in bed. I tell him that it doesn't bother me bacause we can always go again a little later, because he lasts longer after the first time, but he gets really upset with himself. I'm also his first sexual partner and we are just now really getting the chance to have sex often because we are out of our houses and into college. Guys, how long did you last at first and how long do you last now, and girls, how long do your boyfriends last? If I could get some numbers that would really help!! Thank you :-) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): For a guy it often depends how aroused you are pre-penetration. but personally sometimes around 15 minutes ..but most times in the 30-45 minute range. A few occasions its been over with in a few minutes.If he's able to last longer the second time I dont see this as a problem, my guess is he's getting his "experience" from porno. On film you see guys banging away for hours before on cue the money shot comes .A good way to counter his insecurity is to tell him that you are flattered because if he wasnt so turned on by you then he would be able to hold it in longer.Believe me , he will like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007): My husband doesn't last long during intercourse (about 10-15 mins) - but we make up for it with a lot of foreplay (and during play and afterplay)!!! As long as your both left satisfied it shouldn't matter how long the actual 'sex' lasts. It's all about enjoying yourself. So stop clockwatching and experiment with other things.
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (2 October 2007):
 every guys staminer is different, my first bf lasted ages but my second only managed a couple of minutes. in time you'll find out ways to make sex work so both of you feel you've done your best, it's a guy thing to be worried about his performance, just tell him that the more practice he has, the better he'll be.
best of luck
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