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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): Right - I think I get it now. Some time ago he told you that he'll have a surprise for you on or around the 1st December and the suspense is killing you - and in the meantime you're expecting him to spill the beans early because he can't keep a secret?
If that's the case, and if I've grasped the situation correctly, I can't see how it might affect your relationship unless you're badgering him to tell you what it is and he's not letting on, which is annoying you.
I wouldn't have thought this would affect your relationship unless you let it. Quite what the relevance of him hating his job is to all this, I still have no idea, and am still at a loss as far as that is concerned.
However, why not wait until December to see what it is? Are you an impatient sort of person?
Phil
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reader, L.O.S.E.R.  +, writes (3 October 2007):
 Haha,I don't understand your question AT ALL."hating his job and keeping a surpise from me"-what difference does it make does he hate his job or not,what has it got to do with the surprise?"he is really bad at giving surprises and he has known about it"-has known about what,that he's bad at giving surprises?Argh,I feel frustrated when I can't understand something.Enlighten me please LOL
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reader, sweetlilpeachx69  +, writes (3 October 2007):
sweetlilpeachx69 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno i mean like i dont know whats up and he said he has a surprise for me and what he is bad at is keepin it to himself till then
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (3 October 2007):
 Im seriously confused aswell, with surprises its the thought the counts not if hes good at them or not.
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reader, sweetlilpeachx69 +, writes (2 October 2007):
sweetlilpeachx69 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell it will be around the 1st of december whatever it is he said i was gonna be surprised
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007): I'm totally lost here.
WHAT surprise? A bunch of flowers on your birthday? He's booked a vacation? He's already married?
Do please give me a clue or I'll be tearing my hair out!
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reader, BadBaz +, writes (2 October 2007):
Depends what he is like on surprises. He might be asking you to marry him. If your already married. Well it's somthing really big! So just be on the low down and wait. If it takes forever. Ask him What Is With This BIG Surpise?!? If its big when is it?!
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (2 October 2007):
Stress always affects our moods and how we interact with others.
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