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Is fiance's request out of bounds?

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Question - (2 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

My fiance asked me a question this morning that I thought was a little disturbing. I was sick and trying to sleep and he was really horny and he asked if he could do it up the ass to me. I said no, I was sick and sleeping, and he asked if he could violate me. He acted like he was only kidding and that he was just trying to be erotic. But, isn't there some truth to what people say? Should I be worried?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007):

Sick, he sounds like an immature jerk. He obviously does not respect you. I mean you're laying there sick trying to sleep, and he's asking if he can ass rape you? What a freak..I would think before marrying this fool.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007):

Believe it or not my husband did the same thing this weekend (whilst very drunk) and I was wondering if I should be worried also. He kept saying that he would 'do it' to me anyway as he knew that i would enjoy it eventually. I eventually threatened to sleep downstairs and that no meant no and he did stop trying after that but he was really moody about it.

Sorry I don't have any advice but thought it may help to know that u r not the only one.

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