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alicia
writes:A man i was madly in love with left me a few months ago because he made another girl pregnant. I still am not over it and cry everyday asking why? He did leave me and said he would give it a try with this girl because he did have feelings for her and also for the baby to have two parents. I left my country and moved to another and though i am struggling to move on from this guy i have tried. The other day after several months he emailed me asking how i am and telling me that they lost the pregnancy. Wht am i supposed to say here? what does he want me to say? why is this happening to me? he knows i want him back. should i go back to him?
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reader, alicia +, writes (3 October 2007):
alicia is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much for your replies guys and your help. I truly am grateful and appreciate your hel tremendously. It keeps me going everyday.Thank you so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): I think you've come a long way already in getting over him. Imagine going backwards now. Imagine what this will do to your sense of self-worth. It would say...."I let men treat me like dirt and then I take them back". If you can be strong enough to say no to him and keep pushing yourself forward you will meet a man who will respect you and never do those things to you. It will be worth it.
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reader, drastic knowledge +, writes (3 October 2007):
like a little memo says how can you speak to me after you broke my fucking heart
he messed up and walked out and now he doesnt have hes little family he wants to come make deeper wonds for you?
wow block him and keep him out your life
all he can cause is unhappiness and wonder
you dont wana worry about who he is sleeping with or whos the other girl
have respect for your self and dont contact him anymore leave it at that
trust me he is not worth your time
dont let him get the best of you
leave it how he left it and you'll get over him alot faster
you going back is just another heart break to happen
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007): Don't let him back into your life. He got another girl pregnant and now wants to be back into your life because there isnt a baby, er sorry, but have some pride and kick him to the kerb. You shouldnt even be considering having him back.
take care
xx
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reader, TELLULAH + ♥, writes (2 October 2007):
Hi honey,
Why would you want to?. This guy walked out on you for another girl. Granted it was a godd reason, But he made her pregnant whilst he was seeing you.
This Guy is a cheat, and cared nothing for your feelings. I can understand that he did not want a baby to grow up without a father. But I cannot understand how he has the nerve to ask how you are after he broke your Heart.
He may want to get back with you, the question is "are you daft enough to have him".
I hope not, you deserve a lot better than that. XX
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reader, CynthiaRenae +, writes (2 October 2007):
NO NO NO This guy is trash. You can find so much better. A guy who won't cheat on you and leave you. Congrats to him for owning up to his mistakes but what about you? DON'T let this guy ruin your life!! It'll take time to get over I'm sure. I would be selfish and do things for you and no one else. Cut off contact with him or else you won't ever get him out of your head. Good Luck!
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reader, L.O.S.E.R. +, writes (2 October 2007):
Find strength to say 'no' to him cause there are over 5 reasons to do that and one only not to-your feelings for him.Over time they will fade (nothing lasts forever) and after you start thinking cold headed you'll realize how bad he acted to you.Don't think he deserves any kind of reply or knowledge that you still want him back.How is it possible that you do?As I understood he was with you while making her pregnant?You even moved from the country cause of it all.Sorry but I wouldn't advice you to involve with him ever again.
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