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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend has gone off sex but says he doesn't know why. He won't talk about it and whenever I bring it up it creates a massive argument. I'm feeling extremely frustrated, not just physically more mentally that he can't share things with me. I feel less close to him by the day but want to resolve things as I love him. He says he still loves me and shows affection just not as much as he used to do. Is he too scared to end things? I sometimes get the sense he is scared to be on his own so maybe its better he's with me until he finds someone new he wants to have sex with?? The weirdest thing is that we continue to move our lives forward together in other ways e.g. moving in together. What's happening? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007): If you haven't already tell him this. "I'm feeling extremely frustrated, not just physically more mentally that he can't share things with me. I feel less close to him by the day but want to resolve things as I love him."
If I was him, what you said there would open up my eyes and make me realize what I'm doing to you. Hope this helps a little.
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reader, love-him +, writes (1 July 2007):
 Talk to him.. babe u need 2 talk.. explain ur feelings, make him aware u r feeling this way.. there is no other way to resolve a problem like this. For your frustration, maybe a toy? he needs to know your problem, and if he is just staying with you for the wrong reasons, finish with it, he isnt worth ur time and effort, you deserve better. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x
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