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anonymous
writes:Hi, I've been dating a girl for a couple of years now, and it's a long distance relationship. I would like to have phone sex, but she is not at all into that. It's very hard to keep the spice in the relationship when she doesn't want to ever talk about sex. Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): Thanks for the responses- they are appreciated!
Yes, we have been intimate, we were living in the same place at the start but then moved apart for work. When we are together we have a great sex life, the only complaint being that we don't have it often enough, and we do have some friction about that.. We are looking at maybe being able to move back together in a couple of years, and now see each other about once a month. I love her and we get along wonderfully, but I'm just wondering if maybe our differences in sexual expectations (frequency, boundaries) are too big too overcome. Thanks again.
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reader, Cateyes +, writes (1 July 2007):
 I have to agree, it's hard for her whether it's because she just doesn't want to have phone sex - some women don't, or if it's because the distance between you two could possibly be making the relationship dwindle. At some point, someone needs to give so you two can see each other somewhat regular to keep sparks alive and going. Daily emails or even love mail could arouse her enough to where she might feel abit more comfortable, maybe not now, but down the road....and that's if both of you have that desire to keep thriving on this relationship to want to make it work for a possible future together. Good Luck to you!!
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (1 July 2007):
 If she's not up for phone sex then there's absolutely nothing you can do about it therefore the only way to put spice back in your relationship would be to meet up with her. Have you actually met her and if so have you both been intimate yet? Are there plans in the pipeline to be together soon?
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