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I want to break up with my shy boyfriend for another guy--is that wrong?

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Question - (1 July 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom, *hunkymunky writes:

I recently started going out with this guy but since I've been back at school (I was on holiday for 2 weeks) I haven't felt the same for him and I really like this other guy. I've liked the other guy for some time now but I gave up hope on him because he wouldn't admit he liked me (close friends of mine and his both think we'd make a good couple) and he's always flirty with me.

Apparently, he was gutted when he heard I was going out with my current boyfriend. I don't know what to do because my new boyfriend is really shy and he won't hold my hand or anything and it's starting to bug me and I see him more as a friend now. I don't want to hurt anyone but I don't know what to do. help :S xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007):

omg i have the exsact same problem but i think whats best to do is go with who u like more and if u do break up with your boyfriend then wait a while until u go out with the other boy, or just keep ur relationship on the low with him

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2007):

love-him agony auntHi babe, if ur feelings for ur b/f arnt there anymore then you have to end it, dont lead him on.. the longer you stay with him, the harder it will get to end it.. are you definatly sure this other lad likes you, because it could ruin your friendship?? mail me if u wanna talk x x x x

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (1 July 2007):

kenny agony auntIf your feelings for your current boyfriend have gone then you have got to be upfront and honest and tell him how you feel sooner rather than later. The longer you leave it the harder it will get, so tell him now and it will be a big weight off your shoulders.

Sure he will be upset but he will get over it, sometimes in this life we have to be cruel to be kind, at least you won't have lead him on anymore than you had too. Then you can go after the guy you really want.

Good luck x

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